和Shenna討論到3P (threesome)。話題是我起的頭…
我：我想說的是，絕大部分人一聽到3P，都會說，噢，這個好；但是，3P的做愛品質恐怕…
S： 沒錯。That’s the point.
我：When doing 3P, it’s difficult to create the quality as you can when making it with someone you love or like very much.
S：Of course. Likewise, it may not be easy to find the good sexual matches when adding more partner(s).
我： That is a part of the “bad” quality.
S：True. May be some people have the different definitions of “good” or”bad” quality.
我：The variety of definitions reflects something deep in one’s mind. So this was what I thought when reading your writing. I even thought of something psychological that “occur” when people hearing words like “3P”.
S：Yes. Fear of intimacy.
我：Fear of intimacy—那是深藏在現代人心底深處很嚴重的問題。
S： Go, go, so right. But, why? Many reasons behind…
我：Why? 這個issue可大了。總歸，people are lost; or, people have forgotten their selves.
S： Very sharp, my dear. You response to this Q with only two sentences, but cover the most.
我：No, people cannot remember themselves. I myself have tried so hard to remember myself. Now I do remember something.
S： It’s cool. 我想人類文明的進展有時超出人類遺傳基因負荷的範圍。
我：Sehr gute.這個題目很有意思，下次再聊。I have to go, to work. I enjoy our talk. Tschuss!
S： Ciao!
